LIFE IS A BOX OF CHOCOLATES

谈到《阿甘正传》我想，很多人都会想起这首插曲，以及当中最经典的那句话：Life is a box of chocolates.....

昨天重看的这部电影的 时候，突然发觉阿甘如此的幸运，其实他最幸运的是他能遇到他的妈妈。虽然儿子是个智障，但仍旧没有放弃过，以她自己的方式努力的带大他，让他成为一个有用的人。

还记得他妈妈临终前的那句话：it's my time , it's just my time. oh,now, don't u be afraid ,sweetheart? death is just a part of life, something we're all destined to do. i didn't know.it.but i was destined to be ur mother, and i did the best i could".

yes ,she did!

片头和片尾所出现的一片羽毛飘到地上就像一个降临到人世的生命，这片羽毛在广袤的天空中飞行，无论它“是命中注定，还是随风飘零没有定数”，你无从知道它会在何处落地。人生也是一样，就像阿甘的妈妈一开始并不知道自己会成为阿甘的妈妈，就像阿甘一开始并不知道上帝给自己的智商只有75，就像丹上尉一开始并不知道自己要忍受失去双腿的痛苦一样。

对上帝不公的怨恨，也许是人类精神痛苦的一大来源。当有一天，我们终于明白自己必须正视这些既成定局的事实时，怎么办？ 阿甘的妈妈是这样回答的：“别让别人说他们比你强，如果上帝要让人平等，他就应该给所有人都戴上脚箍。”

电影中，阿甘跑着跑着突然停下脚步，他后面的追随者互视着对方，人生就是这样，我们每天都在跟时间赛跑，跟自己的竞争对手赛跑，跑到最后即使赢了，也不会有多大的成就感，更多的是身心的疲惫，此时后面还不知道有多少人在追赶你，促使你继续往前跑！就这样一直奔跑下去。。。

阿甘所寻找的答案也正是我们每个人所正在寻找的。

不得不说《阿甘》是我最喜欢的奥斯卡电影之一。

Love Your Life

   However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard names.It is not so bad as you are.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will find faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man's abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a palace.The town's poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.Most think that they are above being supported by the town;but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest means.which should be more disreputable.Cultivate poverty like a garden herb,like sage.Do not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to them.Things do not change;we change.Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts